I have a question. Why is it that women always tend to sex things up? (I’ll answer my own question below) Take for example a comic con where people dress up in costume. It’s called cosplay for anyone not in the know. It’s understandable that many female characters in comics wear tight spandex outfits that make them look all sexy. Why is it understandable? Because in most comic books, the male characters are also often found in tight spandex suits showing off their big muscles and bodies.
But there are the other characters that aren’t meant to look sexy, usually male characters. Sometimes you get women dressing up as these male characters and when they do, they sometimes (a lot of times) add a spin to it by sexing it up. Either adding tights and short skirts or showing more skin or whatever else might make the character look more sexy.
Take for example:
I don’t want to complain (and I’m not) because I’m a guy and I like women looking sexy. But what I don’t like is how women come back and say things like:
“we aren’t objects for your personal sexual satisfaction”
Or when they get upset that their boyfriend is looking at other women.
It seems perfectly clear to me that women have sex on the brain just as much as men. Just in a different way. Their version of sex on the brain is less about being the spectator (like men are) and more about being the spectacle itself. Which is why some of them get angry if their boyfriend/husband decides to watch a different spectacle. Essentially women are asking for it, even though they complain they don’t like it. That’s why they buy tight clothing, wear makeup, spend hours doing their hair and own fifty billion pairs of shoes. They want to look sexy, even when they dress up in costume as characters that aren’t supposed to be sexy. That whole “it makes me feel good” or “I’m doing it for myself” excuse isn’t totally wrong. They are doing for themselves and it does make them feel good, because other people (men and women) notice them more.
I just wish we would all be more honest about this. If you want men to treat you less as sex objects and your boyfriends to stop staring at other women, then you need to come together and decide to stop pushing sexy everywhere you go. Personally though, I think it would just be easier for you to stop complaining about it and let me enjoy the show.