Lol, you know, some virgins just don’t seem to get it. I’m not someone who is all about saving yourself for marriage. You all know that. But that is someones choice.
What I don’t understand are these virgins who ride the line. These guys or girls who call themsevles virgins and say they are saving themselves for marriage but they are willing to do everything else sexually in the meantime. They are willing to perform or recieve oral sex, hand jobs, get totally naked and rub up against each other or whatever it might be.
Yes technically by definition they are virgins if they have never penetrated or been penetrated. But seriously, come on, who would consider their new wife or husband a virgin having known they did all these other things? I mean the point of saving yourself for marriage is to avoid ALL sexual contact with another person. You’re supposed to arrive at the marriage bed having never experienced sexual pleasure of any kind from another person at all. That’s the point!
What’s even more ridiculous are these girls who believe that having anal sex is ok, because they can still retain their virginity. I’m sorry. I lost my virginity having anal sex with a girl. I don’t buy that at all. Anal sex is penetration and if some guys dick is inside you, guess what, you aren’t a virgin anymore.
You think I would accept my new wife saying to me “I’m a virgin, but I did let a guy stick his dick in my ass”? No way. I’d be like sweetheart, you ain’t been a virgin since then. Same would be true if she told me she got completely naked and let a guy touch her all over, just not stick it in her.
Then there are these girls who go about “reclaiming their virginity” as if it never happened. Talk about fucking delusional. Get over it, you experienced it, you did it, just accept it. It’s not that bad.
Some people are really wacky. Face it, it’s either one or the other. Either you are sexually active, or you are saving yourself for marriage. You can’t have both.