I was listening to the radio on my drive to work the other day and they had Kevin Smith (filmmaker and actor) on for a pretty lengthy interview. I like Kevin Smith and his movies, even if I’m not the biggest fan ever. But he started talking about porn and he said something pretty profound.
The DJ’s had asked him about a scene in Clerks 2 (I think I haven’t seen it) where they are talking about Ass to Mouth. Kevin said (and I’m paraphrasing):
“It used to be decades ago that porn was a reflection of peoples real sexual lifestyles and habits. Today porn seems to be dictating peoples sexual habits. In real life who really does Ass to Mouth? ‘ hey you wanna put this in your mouth even though I just pulled it out of your ass?’ If your girl is going to give you anal, it’s more like Ass to Thank You.”
Lol, I thought that was pretty funny and pretty accurate. I hadn’t realized it completely until he said it. But I remember when I was 9 or 10 and found my brothers stash of porn mags. Over the years I found his video tapes and eventually rented and bought some of my own. Then the internet came about and over the next decade I used that to fulfill my porn appetite. Porn has definitely changed, even in the last twenty years I’ve been viewing it.
It used to be anal sex was a fetish, now it’s hard to find a porn flick that doesn’t have an anal scene. In fact what used to be many so called “weird fetishes” have found their way into mainstream porn. Another great example is rimming. It seems like at least every other porn I watch these days has a guy rimming a girls asshole with his tongue and girls rimming other girls assholes with their tongue. Its almost become the norm over eating out a chicks pussy. I’ve seen these trends come in. Lately I’ve been seeing this trend of girls rimming guys (I certainly don’t mind that either :) and even some gay porn finding its way into the straight porn section in the form of bisexual scenes.
But the real question is, is any of this bad? Yeah I guess it is if you think that all people do this kind of stuff during sex and you expect it with everyone you get with. On the other hand, it is opening peoples minds to other things. But everybody does have their limits. You just need to be aware of what they are when you get with someone. Lol! This coming from me. The guy whose gotten nearly every girl he’s been with to let him stick it in their ass. Yeah I’ve been known to push some girls boundaries over the years. But hey they were willing to go there and I was happy to take them there. Was I influenced by porn? Hell yeah I was and I’m glad for it too! Otherwise I wouldn’t have had some of the wild times I’ve had in the sack. Am I going ass to mouth anytime soon? Hey it’s not my mouth. :)