I don’t understand how certain people can be against public displays of affection and then go home and watch porn that involves people having sex in public places.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m against people having sex publicly in the McDonald’s play area or even out in the middle of the street. But I don’t see how hugging, cuddling, kissing or a nice little smack on the ass is a big deal.
There are times and places for certain things. Personally I don’t think I’d really have much of a problem with two people have all out sex in a nightclub that is for 18 and over adults. Health issues aside.
I guess its all in how far the PDA fgoes. Personally, I like watching PDA, because it means they actually have an interest in each toher. The foreplay they can try and save till they get home or are in somewhere as secluded as a car. You know?
PDA’s fine, I don’t like to do it, but that’s because I’m shy. I think the reason people can say one thing then watch the other, is because it’s not directly in front of them. It’s on the computer or tv or whatever. It’s more of a fantasy than a reality, even though they had to physically be where ever they were to film it. The idea isn’t as appalling as having someone do it right in front of them. I’ve been in public areas where people have had sex multiple times, it’s no big deal…usually people just line up and take pics or videos heh.
the difference is that with porn, we can choose what to watch whereas with PDA, the couple might be ugly, so when I see that, it grosses me out. with porn, I can select whatever I want to watch that won’t make me repulsed.