Having talked with, dated and read many a womans opinions on this matter. Many generally give the same point of view while in relationship with their SO .
“I should be the only thing you desire”
Or phrased differently
“I want to be the only one you desire”
Or any number of other wording that means basically the same thing.
This is a womans desire, but this is not an accurate reality of a mans mind. Yet at the same time it’s the cause of so much conflict in relationships to various scales and degrees.
Men desire variety. It doesn’t matter if you’re the hottest girl the world has ever seen, eventually your mans eyes are going to wander. It just really depends on how far. It could be porn, it could be women he sees in his daily life, it could be full out cheating. That all depends on the guy.
But I’ll tell you one thing. It’s not a healthly relationship if he’s afraid to express interest in other woman. Even if it’s not spoken of, if he’s afraid to watch porn, or glace at another girl in public because of your reaction, that’s just not healthy. Nor is it healthy for a woman to expect that her man desire no one else but her. That’s just completely unrealistic. You live in a fantasy fairy tale land if you think that’s the case.
If you think your man only desires you, you’re lying to yourself. If you ask him and he tells you that he only desires you, he’s lying to you. I have never met a man in my 30 years on this earth who has not at least thought about and desired other women when he is with another one.
Either he’s going to take out his desires in fantasy form when he’s fucking you, or when he’s watching porn, or by cheating on you or leaving you for someone else.