I really don’t understand. But for some reason, none of my girlfriends female friends have ever liked me. No matter which girlfriend I’ve had. I want them to like me, but apparently I am incredibly awkward with women. I come off a creepy, controlling and introverted. Yet my girlfriends have always seen me as exactly the opposite which is exactly how I see myself.
I want to get along with my girlfriends friends, but it’s difficult when one of them thinks I’m creepy because my eyes are so dark brown they look almost black, another one things I’m gay and controlling, even though I’m definitely not gay and certainly not controlling.
There has always been something that makes these women not like me and never feel comfortable around me. yet strangely, there are plenty of women who I have been friends with or who were girlfriends of my friends who do not at all feel this way toward me. So why is it that I always get stuck with girlfriends who have friends that hate me? Why can’t I get girlfriends girlfriends who make me birthday videos like my friend Josh or girlfriend girlfriends who want to sleep with me like some guys get. Even though i would never do it.
I get along with my one boss at work really well. She tells me how laid back and relaxed I make everyone feel, especially when I am directing clients during shoots. Yet many girlfriends girlfriends hate me, even when I try to reach out to them and be friendly.
I know I’m a quiet guy. I don’t say a whole lot. That doesn’t make me an asshole. I just don’t feel the need to talk all the time like some people do. I’m the type that is perfectly fine sitting at a bar drinking a beer and not saying anything to you. If that makes you uncomfortable I’m sorry. I have a lot on my mind and not always the best way to express it. Must someone talk all the time and have a smile on their face all the time for us to like them? That just seems to shallow.