I’m not opposed to multiracial dating. But honestly it does seem like a trend these days to see black guys with white girls. I’m not sure why this is. But it’s rare for me to see this turned around. White guy, black girl.
I’ve heard it said before that black guys consider it a social status symbol to score a white girl. I don’t know if this is true or not, but it seems to me like that’s kinda messed up if it is.
I’ve also wondered just how black women view this trend? It seems to me like it’s a bit of a slap in the face to black women, when black guys are trying to go for white girls either for status or because they think they’re better looking.
I don’t know. Like I said. I’m not against it. But I’d rather people do it for the right reasons, rather then for “status” or “trend”.
Am I wrong about any of this? Please fill in any gaps.
@TheSeventhRhapsody – Men commenting on this is like commenting on watching pornography, while they still have a girlfriend. They would rather keep things kind of confidential on the reasons.
@DearRicky - Women don’t have feelings.
I’m most fond of black men. I never thought I would be, but it’s true. I’m more attracted to their race than any other. My ethnicity is Puerto Rican and Mexican, but people usually think I’m a white girl, which sucks, but what can you do? I’m white in skin tone, so either way, one major aspect I love about black men is how their skin tone compliments my own. Mmmm I used to LOVE it when my hand was intertwined in my guy friend’s black hand, back in the day when we were kicking it. Two colors in unison, each of us just loving it.
I love seeing interracial couples because it’s so…different. So atypical. The kids are usually pretty damn cute too. Nothing against same-race couples, of course. But sometimes it’s like you see those sorts of setups every day. Two white people with blonde-hair, blue-eyed kids. Or two black people with black-haired, brown-eyed kids. It’s all just so…common. But get a white person with a black person or a black with an Asian or a white with a mexican or whatever else, and you got all sorts of possibilities. Oh I just love interracial society.
One thing whether you like it or not, each individual person enjoys love in there own way, no matter what anyone says or feed.
I have actually asked multiple black guys why they goes for white girls…they say its because white girls don’t argue as much as black girls.
I don’t have a problem with interracial dating. I’m white and I’m dating a Dominican. I have dated black guys, white guys, hispanics…
I don’t look at the color of their skin. Just their personality.
I don’t think race defines a person- and if somebody is dating somebody based entirely on race, they’re probably only doing it for the ‘status’, or for the physical traits that race is known for. Which is kind of superficial.
I’m a white girl dating a Filipino man. There aren’t too many white girl/asian man combos around!
i agree, it does sort of seem to be a status thing. one of my african american male friends told me one time “black guys only date black girls because they don’t have access to white women” which is a sentiment i’ve heard from many diff african american males. which i find very, VERY sad. it doesn’t really make sense to me. i love black men. i love all types of men…and i’m ALL for interracial relationships, they are beautiful. but your right, they should be based on love not status or a “trend”