There seems to be a good amount of virgin girls on xanga waiting to have sex until they’re married. I’m not seeing as many guys saying that but then again, the xanga populace seems to be dominated by females.
I also believe that there are only three reasons a guy would still be a virgin by the time he’s 20 or older.
1. He’s been unlucky with the opposite sex, because he’s unattractive physically and/or mentally (which is probably the most common reason.
2. Because of his religious beliefs.
3. Because he’s gay and too afraid to come out of the closet even to himself.
The same three could be applied to women as well, but from my experience, the first is less likely. Even unattractive women can get laid by some guy if they just ask.
But I’m wondering how many of these virgin girls will be successful. Personally I don’t really understand the point. I’ve been with a couple of virgins in my life and it wasn’t anything special. Nor would I ever marry someone without first taking them for a test drive. I mean would you buy a car without taking it for a test drive? That’s not even something you’re committing to for life.
Sure there is something to be said about being considered a slut. I mean if you’ve slept with more then 25 guys by the time you’re 25 years old I’d say you’re pretty active. I’m not even sure that’s a bad thing, but from my perspective as a guy (and we all know guys a bit competitive), I myself haven’t slept with nearly 25 girls in my life and I’m 30. Probably less then half that.
Anyway whatever, that’s just a random number. It doesn’t really matter. It’s the 21st century so if you’re female and like to get your bang on then by all means.
But I have a feeling a lot of these virgin girls are going to be disappointed. At some point they just won’t end up in a relationship with enough lasting power that the guy will leave, or if they do get married, they may even face divorce at some point, then what? Become a virgin all over again?
Just seems like a lot to save for no real reason.